there are certain points in your life..when something or someone enters...and you are so caught up working on things that you just neglect every other thing and everyone else who once played a large part in your life. you concentrate so much on that thing or person...and everything else seems to be shadowed from your eyes...or shelved somewhere at the back of your head.then one day...something happens and whatever you were caught up with goes wrong and...for a period of time after that..you'll feel lost and down in the dumps...and have absolutely no idea which direction to head towards. then one fine day..you suddenly start thinking of all the things you used to do which you haven't been doing...all the people whom you have neglected...and then you feel guilty for being so selfish and regret what you did...all that precious time lost. you start missing all of them and all the good times you used to have. you go back to doing what you once did...you call up the people whom you've neglected..and realise that they are still there..were always there(inevitably some may be lost)..and you realise how blessed you are. when all these happen...you know that you've surfaced from the abyss...everything bad's gonna be left behind..and maybe this time you're gonna move on with life for real. :)