empty words. broken promises. shattered hopes. disappointment. tears of anger. tears of sorrow.
how do people tolerate and forgive those who cause them so much hurt and sorrows?

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friends....vary in many ways...but can easily fall into two categories...those who bring happiness to ur life...and those who don't.

there are those who only remember you in times of need. are never there when u need them. who don't give a damn if u are dead or alive. who cancel their appt with u a million times and take it for granted that u'll be ok with it. who are inconsiderate...like only letting u know that they can't make it at the last min...leaving u stranded and clueless. who can't be bothered to listen to you. who suddenly disappear from your life..like as though they never existed in the first place...or rather..you never existed before.who do not appreciate the things u do. who make u feel like as though u are inviting God to come down from heaven..each time u ask them out. who make promises they never keep. who say things they never mean. they're right next to u, and yet they don't seem to be present. the list goes on...and they don't even realise how much hurt they have caused u coz of their insensitivity.

then there are those who bring so much happiness that they seem to be a gift from heaven. they message to ask how you are doing even though the last time they saw you was a day ago. they remember the slightest details about you. they know the number of days that they haven't seen you...and tell you how much they miss you. they bother to come all the way down to where you are the moment they know that you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to. they do small little things...like buying u, u're favourite sweet..just to show tt they care and to make you smile. they only bring u laughter.. and never tears.they are always there for you.they do not forget ur existence at the snap of a finger.no empty words.no broken promises. eternal happiness.

now...ask urself...which kinda friend are you??